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  May 26, 2010 at 3:36 PM (24) Comments
 
  By:          Cassandra (15 Articles Written)
  Age:       102
  From:     Nieuwegein, Utrecht , Singapore
  Series:    -
  Tags:      WarCraft III, wedding, Grubby, Cassandra
 
 

My wedding day - What does it represent? The most memorable day of my life, and it was even better than my wildest dreams as I was given more than I ever wished. A soulmate that I found through e-Sports. A life companion, my best friend, my confidante, my lover, my colleague, my baby - he is all that. A celebration of two lives intertwining as one, as a new "family" is formed.

At first we both had doubts about sharing our wedding pictures. But after some thinking, we had no doubts that we want to share our pictures with the world of e-Sports that provided us with the chance to meet in the first place, and the fans who had been supporting us for all these years. We want to say thank you... For making this dream come true... For this wonderful... Awesome day!

Let's start the short summary from the beginning. After dating for 3 years, Manuel proposed to me, and we got engaged in August 2009. That was also a moment I would never forget: It seemed like only yesterday I saw him walking down to me from the Blizzcon stage, kneeled down on one knee, holding the ring in his trembling hands... And tears of happiness rolling down my cheeks as I said, "Yes." Fast forward another 6 months... And here we are, on a beautiful beach that we call paradise, promising to take care of each other forever, as our family and best friends celebrated with us. I never cried so many happy tears in one day... Thank you everyone.

The wedding plans started in January. We discussed and realized that we both wanted a small, simple, relaxed wedding, something that we can finish planning in a month or two. We don't have a lot of time to plan, because of busy tournament schedules. Also, it was important that our wedding does not clash with a tournament, because we also think it would be a pity if we were to miss a tournament.

We'd been to a beautiful island in Malaysia in 2007 for our summer holiday. We became excited as we thought of bringing our closest family and friends to this paradise to celebrate this special day with us. What's more relaxed than to have our wedding at a beach setting? We talked with the hotel resort on the island, and with our family, and the wedding plans became final in February, with all our air tickets booked. Everyone really looked forward to the big trip, to our wedding day.

A number of around 20 guests would be ideal for our idea of a small, intimate wedding. We ended up with 16 guests in the end. It's unfortunate that my family couldn't attend because of my grandma's sickness. They were in my heart nonetheless. The guests consisted of Manuel's family (his dad + girlfriend, Mom + her female cousin, three brothers and their partners), his best friend (they were best friends since the age of 3), and my three best friends who became my Brides' maids.

As a preview, as a start, we decided to post one dozen pictures from our wedding day:
(Click the pictures to enlarge)


Manuel's mom was the master of ceremony, and a very good one too. She wears a beautiful beaded dress with colours that matched the colours of the sea. Perfect dress for the perfect occasion and perfect location. :)


Manuel made an entrance with his three brothers (The Best Men). All three brothers got the same suit, and they look great. Manuel looked like a prince in his wedding suit. My prince charming... :)


Manuel on the stage, as he waited for my entrance...


The "Wedding March" song started... as my beautiful bridemaids lead the way for me. I was really nervous while I was waiting for the cue for my entrance! This is also the first moment that Manuel saw me in my wedding dress. (It's tradition that the groom don't see the bride's dress before the wedding.) My eyes started to well up as soon as I walked a few steps and saw Manuel and the guests waiting for me at the romantic beach wedding setting.


I joined Manuel on the stage. We both had tears in our eyes as  we held hands and got seated. All of our guests prepared a special speech for us on stage, so they took turns to go on stage for their speech.


We love the speeches from every guests. It was very heart-warming... and it made me cry many times. It nearly made me look like a panda bride!


Umbrellas to shield us from the burning sun as we enjoyed the speeches from our guests. It was 34 degrees celcius.


Finally, our Dutch pastor ushered us into the water where he will marry us. It was a beautiful sight... and other tourists came to look as well.


YAY!! We got married!!


A group picture with all our lovely, fun-loving guests.



In the evening, we had our wedding dinner on the beach as well. Yes... With our bare feet feeling the soft, fine, white sand as we enjoy our barbeque seafood dinner together in a land far far away.


The beautiful beach as scenery... Great company, great music, great food... The best dinner we had ever eaten... :)

Hope you enjoyed these 12 pictures. Will try to post more pictures in my next blog.

Till then...
 
 
 
 
 
 
1.   Canada  Baby_Lika May 26, 2010 6:38 PM EST  
  Cassandra, that's a gorgeous wedding and I wish you both the best. Thanks for sharing your special day with the community!
 
     
2.   USA  n0thing May 26, 2010 6:51 PM EST  
  Awesome pictures! Small weddings can be awesome as we see here. I wish you guys the best of times during your life long journey together!
 
     
3.   USA  Zyz May 26, 2010 6:53 PM EST  
  you guys look great, congrats ^^
 
     
4.   USA  SirScoots May 26, 2010 6:57 PM EST  
  I was honored to be present when Manuel proposed to you at Blizzcon, so I am beyond honored that you and Manuel decided to share these details of your most special day and the forming of your new family with your EG family. You two are destined for a long life of love and happiness!
 
     
5.   USA  madagascar May 26, 2010 7:39 PM EST  
  wow this wedding seems perfect. Gratz
 
     
6.   USA  confire May 26, 2010 7:58 PM EST  
  Congrats to you two! Thank you for sharing the story/pics of your special day.
 
     
7.   USA  rebound May 26, 2010 8:31 PM EST  
  These are wonderful pictures. I'm really so happy for the both of you, congratulations! :D
 
     
8.   Canada  Azael May 26, 2010 9:08 PM EST  
  Congrats! Looks like an amazing wedding and a very happy couple!
 
     
9.   India  BlueSpine May 26, 2010 10:40 PM EST  
  wonderful wedding pics, congratulations to you both. :)
 
     
10.   China  Oceanus May 26, 2010 10:54 PM EST  
  wow really awesome pics!
An amzing beach wedding, so happy for you couple:)
Congratulations^_^
 
     
11.   Croatia  Huang_Feng May 27, 2010 8:18 AM EST  
  hahahahaha,i rly didnt expect you ll get married on beach ;),
1st gratz, you 2 are made for each other!
2nd everything looks amazing,i luv Manuels coat of a suit,like he is some captain of dutch frigate!
oh and ofc,i am happy that i could meet you in real life! ;D
 
     
12.   Netherlands  Clocala May 27, 2010 11:58 AM EST  
  What a beautiful pictures! Seems like the perfect day indeed.

Gongratulations!!
 
     
13.   Canada  cyzer May 27, 2010 1:55 PM EST  
  Wowwwww, what a beautiful wedding! Congratulations and I'm really happy for you guys!
 
     
14.   USA  Freakyboymn May 27, 2010 3:10 PM EST  
  It is very rare that i will make an account just to comment on forums. For this I had to make a special occasion.

Following Grubby as a favorite player (and by default Cass) for years through his career an orc player. It's always been fun to root for a favorite. Through the good bad and the ugly; my brother and I have concatenated Grubby with Warcraft 3. When you talk about Warcraft 3 you can't disconnect it from Manual, from the greatest wc3 players.

So very happy for you that e-sports worked for you as a carrier and that you might have found happiness. What an amazing wedding and beautiful ceremony. Specially liked the being in the water to be wed.

From one gamer to another. Congratulations you two. Thank you both for putting up the pictures and telling us about the wedding. Made me really happy to see. Excited to show my girlfriend tonight after work.

Salute,

-Matteo
 
     
15.   Germany  jimolsen May 27, 2010 4:56 PM EST  
  congratulations
 
     
16.   Portugal  juandfg May 27, 2010 5:41 PM EST  
  w0w! amazing! that looks just beautiful.
I wish the best for you two, and congrats! =)
these two made my day :b good luck guys
 
     
17.   Czech Republic  JustLittleStar_ May 28, 2010 12:31 AM EST  
  amazing , Congratulations ! nice that you guys met each other , now just be happy together forever i'm really happy for you :) 4K

Greets from LA
jLS
 
     
18.   Finland  lurppis May 28, 2010 5:58 AM EST  
  Congrats to you guys! Wedding looks really nice and so does the location!
 
     
19.   Bosnia and Herzegowina  BaksuZ May 28, 2010 7:41 AM EST  
  Amazing.. simply amazing. I wish I'll have a wedding similar to yours :)
Best of luck in your life (God knows I've said that a million times already :D)
 
     
20.   China  Elee May 28, 2010 1:12 PM EST  
  wonderful! i`m happying! because bride and groom!
 
     
21.   Netherlands  Mista_Masta May 29, 2010 8:02 AM EST  
  Wow, congratulations! The pictures are wonderful :)
 
     
22.   Chile  alzky May 30, 2010 11:27 PM EST  
  congratulations both , gorgeous looking !
 
     
23.   Singapore  Cassandra June 01, 2010 9:08 AM EST  
  Thank you all!! :)
 
     
24.   Netherlands  Grubby June 01, 2010 5:37 PM EST  
  Heel erg bedankt, iedereen.
 
     
 
 
 
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